Showing posts with label 1 Tim 4:12. Show all posts
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Friday, April 13, 2018

Blameless

What a beautiful Friday morning this is!  Let's study the WORD, hallelujah!

In the last post on the book of Titus, we examined the problem facing the church of Crete, namely that Judaizers were turning entire families in the church away from the truth of the gospel.  The Judaizers, who were "in it" for their own self-aggrandizement, were the epitome of awful church leadership!

Today, let's look at Paul's proposed solution, in Titus 1:5-9 (NIV) - -

5The reason I left you in Crete was that you might put in order what was left unfinished and appointa elders in every town, as I directed you. 6An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believeb and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient. 7Since an overseer manages God’s household, he must be blameless—not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. 8Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. 9He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it.

Paul is not the first apostle to describe the characteristics of church leaders.  Peter did also, and we will look as his list too.  You'll see a good deal of overlap between the two church fathers.

Most of the time, the term "elder" is applied to the "senior pastor" (in our lingo) of the congregation. However, it can be generalized to apply to any adult leader in the local church, as well.  The first thing that strikes me about establishing leadership in the church is the power of appointment.  These leaders were to be appointed by other trustworthy leaders.  Another translation of the word "appoint" is "ordain", which is why we have church ordinations for various church leaders.  Ordination commemorates, conveys and convicts.  The ceremony commemorates the beginning of the leadership position.  It conveys trust and authority concerning the responsibilities of leadership.  It convicts the leader of his ongoing Christian walk.

Argue about that as you will, but I have personally witnessed a strict "nomination/election" process in a large congregation and it was not pretty.  The results were not great.  People are distracted by the cares of life; therefore, they do not pay attention to such nominations.  Out of a congregation of hundreds, it was common to find only a handful nominated for these key leadership positions.  The congregation's attitude seemed to be, "Oh well, someone else will nominate and it will turn out allright."  Well, it didn't.

My current church body uses a combination of appointment by the body of current leaders, followed by a vote of the church body, which I believe is a just way of doing things, in keeping with scriptural principles.

Secondly, let's consider the word "blameless", the title of this post.  That seems like an impossibly high standard, doesn't it?  Basically, it does not mean "perfect", since no one is.  It does however mean "of high reputation in the community, especially the community of faith".  In other words, those who know him best speak highly of his character, a character forged in the furnace of the Holy Spirit's sanctifying work!  Some of the other attributes of being blameless are given in verses 7-8.

Faithful to his wife is self-explanatory, but I would add a faithfulness coupled with expressed love.  A cold, heartless "shackled to the old lady" is not what Paul was advocating here.....

Paul also emphasizes that church leaders are to encourage others through the active teaching of sound doctrine and to energetically oppose those who are teaching false doctrine.  This is extremely important in every Christian congregation, and we know that the Cretan church was in great need of this kind of doctrinal warrior-leader.  These kinds of courageous leaders are in extremely short supply, in many congregations, because to confront doctrinal error takes tremendous courage, being willing to "go against the flow" in just about every case.  This is a type of spiritual warfare.  Of course, before you can teach sound doctrine, you should KNOW sound doctrine.  In other words, church leaders should be avid students of the Word of God.

With these characteristics from Titus/Paul in mind, let's look at the specifics of Peter's passage and mine out the traits needed for successful church leaders.  In this way, we unite the Word of God around the teaching on this important topic.


Therefore, as a fellow elder and witness to the sufferings of the Messiah and also a participant in the glory about to be revealed, I exhort the elders among you: Shepherd God’s flock among you, not overseeing out of compulsion but freely, according to God’s will; not for the money but eagerly; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.
In the same way, you younger men, be subject to the elders. And all of you clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because
God resists the proud

but gives grace to the humble.
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, so that He may exalt you at the proper time
1 Peter 5:1-6 (HCSB)

Shepherd the Flock
In this, elders follow the example of Christ, who is referred to as the Good Shepherd or the Chief Shepherd.  How should they do this?
1.  With humility - - - elders are not to view their roles as occasions for pride, which is the chief sin of the Church.  Peter realizes this too, because he mentions humility repeatedly in this passage.
2.  Without a lust for power - - - Peter mentions money in this context, which is analogous to power. Many church positions are unpaid, but those in them seek to accrue power to themselves as payment. A dead giveaway to this type of leader is the one who says, "My legacy ... "  or (God forbid) "I ran that sorry preacher off!"  Watch out for that type of church "leader".  They are in it primarily for their own self-aggrandizement.
Some of the worst "Christians" I've ever seen are in positions of leadership in our churches! They use their position to disregard church by-laws and constitutions, to not follow proper procedures and to "get their own way".
We are not given positions of leadership within a congregation to create a "legacy" for ourselves.  All glory from our service goes to the Lord, not to us.  Leaders, do you desire that "unfading crown of glory" from the Lord?  Then, don't seek to receive it in this life.

Be an Example
When you are offered a position of leadership in the church fellowship, fall on your face before God and examine yourself.  If your heart is not right, then that is an opportunity for Satan to get in and to not only tarnish your ministry but, more importantly, to harm others spiritually.  Some people are fond of telling other believers how to live the life, yet they don't live it themselves.
(This is how this blog got started actually.  I was co-leading the college group in my home, and we were discussing daily Bible reading.  I became so convicted because I was advocating that discipline for the young people, but was not doing it myself.  I resolved, by the power of the Holy Spirit, to change that in my life.  And, this blog, which is the outworking of my daily Bible devotional time, was born.)
In his admonitions to, his training of, young Timothy, Paul talked about how he as a church leader should be an example.  These were the traits he mentioned in 1 Timothy 4:12 - - -

"...be an example for other believers in your speech, behavior, love, faithfulness and purity."

  • It is no accident that the tongue is mentioned first here.  Leaders in the church are to "put the quietus" on murmuring and backbiting and pot-stirring in the church, not be the instigators or the cause of it.
  • The leader's behavior must be characterized by love, faithfulness and purity.  The Message version puts it like this:  
Teach believers with your life: by word, by demeanor, by love, by faith, by integrity.  Stay at your post reading Scripture, giving counsel, teaching.  And that special gift of ministry you were given when the leaders of the church laid hands on you and prayed - - keep that dusted off and in use.

Leaders: don't be lazy!  We ought to see our elders praying, doing visitation, tithing, teaching, worshipping with the congregation, serving in church ministries, participating in many ministries of the church - - - and their spouses as well.  If we don't, then something is wrong.  And, any elder who cannot be loyal to his local church and its leadership, supporting it/them by being an example in these ways should resign.

Being called by God to a position of leadership in the local church is a fearsome responsibility. When we put on the robe of leadership, it has a bulls-eye on its back.  Satan immediately elevates us as a prime target, marked for destruction.  Each of us in leadership roles, each of us elders, should be constantly on our faces before God, asking His Spirit to examine us.  God forbid that we should, by our position of influence, do anything to fracture the Body, to sow seeds of dissension, to dishonor Him.

After you have finished reading this post, please take a moment and pray for your church leaders today.  Pray for them often, as a matter of habit.  And, if you ARE a leader in your local church or in a para-church ministry, ask God to lead you with tenderness and mercy, so that you may do the same with those He has given to your spiritual care.  

Saturday, December 19, 2015

Easy Days



Today is one of those beautiful, joyful days.  Sometimes it seems as if the days slog by, or that they fly by (when you need more hours in the day).  But, today is not one of those days.  This day is a wedding day, in my family.  My niece is marrying the nephew of one of my dearest childhood friends.  This family that has always seemed like "family" now truly will be, in the most legal sense of the word, family.  Hallelujah!

The mother of the bride, my sister, the mother of the groom, and I have been running around this morning, attending to last-minute details.  There are always some last-minute "water into wine" miracles needed!  Here and there, between blogging, I've gotten to be that bringer of miracles ... while holding joyful tears at bay.  So, my blog formatting looks crazy, because I am cray-cray today. That.Is.All.

The text that Ann Voskamp is featuring today, in my ongoing tracking here in the blog with her Advent series, is Habakkuk 3:17-19.


When the fig tree does not bud,

and there are no grapes on the vines;
when the olive trees do not produce,
and the fields yield no crops;
when the sheep disappear from the pen,
and there are no cattle in the stalls,
18 
I will rejoice because of the Lord;
I will be happy because of the God who delivers me!
19 
The sovereign Lord is my source of strength.
He gives me the agility of a deer.


This text speaks of rejoicing always, even under the direst of life's circumstances, letting the Holy Spirit fill you up to praise Him, no matter what.  Its parallel in the New Testament is 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18.

Always rejoice, constantly pray, in everything give thanks.  For this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.


Today, it's an easy task.  Praise the Lord, for He is GOOD!

Below is a wedding blessing, written by my friend, Susan Browning Schultz.  I thank her for the permission to use it to bless my niece and her soon-to-be husband today.


Seven Helpings of Marriage Wisdom
1.God always encourages us to be the person you would like to be married to. If you need more understanding; give more love and understanding to your spouse. “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interest of others.” Philippians 2:3-4
2.Nobody is perfect. Don’t let the world find out about your spouse’s imperfections via you. “The heart of her husband trusts in her.” Proverbs 31:11
3.Make it a point to give your spouse the best of you: the best of your touch, the best of your good attitude, the best laughter, and the best words. Don’t always bring them what’s left over after the world has drained you. “ . . . But set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.” 1 Timothy 4:12
4.Be intentional. Each day look for ways to bless your spouse. “Outdo one another in showing honor.” Romans 12:10
5.Believe the best about your spouse, even when they don’t communicate well and don’t keep a record of all of their mistakes. “Love always protects, always trusts, and always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13
6.Greet your spouse with a kiss. Positive touch releases endorphins so you associate your spouse with pleasant feelings. “Kiss me and kiss me again.” Song of Songs 1:2

7.This one is for later: Life affects us all. No one remains the same. We change physically; act less romantic, and so forth. Take time to find the two people who fell in love and reconnect. “Rejoice in the wife of your youth.” Proverbs 5:18

I hope each of you can praise today...no matter what.

Dear God, thank you for those halcyon days when it is so very easy to praise You!  We need them, Lord, to carry us through the rough days, when praising You is a more costly act of worship.  Thank you for the joy that a wedding brings, that you have given my niece a godly man to be her husband.  I pray your richest blessings on them and on the generations following.  (Deuteronomy 5:10).  In Jesus' name, amen.

Source:

Voskamp, Ann. The Greatest Gift: Unwrapping the Full Love Story of Christmas

Friday, October 23, 2015

The God of All Comfort

Good morning,

Frequent readers of this blog know I've embarked upon a study of the letters of Paul (commonly called "the Pauline epistles"). Previously, I've studied 1 and 2 Thessalonians, the first two letters we have in our Bible. They were written in 52 A.D., or thereabouts, while Paul was in Corinth, on his first trip there.  Paul visited Corinth three times, the first being during his second missionary journey. On his first visit, in 52 A.D., he stayed and taught them for a year and a half.

Having finished 1 Corinthians, 2 Corinthians is next in the chronological queue.  This letter was written a few months after the first; both were written in 57 A.D.  But, whereas 1 Corinthians was written from Ephesus, 2 Corinthians as written from somewhere in Macedonia, possibly at Philippi.

As you could tell from the tone of 1 Corinthians, Paul was writing mainly to correct errors that had arisen in the church since his first 18-month stay.  When his letter had not completely accomplished its intended purposes, he sent Timothy to Corinth to straighten them out (1 Cor. 4:7).  Unfortunately, this was not sufficient; so, Paul had to make a second "painful" visit to confront the culprits (2 Cor. 2:1).  Unbelievably, this STILL did not rectify the situation.  Paul then wrote what he referred to as "a severe letter", which he sent by Titus (2 Cor. 2:4-9; 7:8-12).  We are not made privy to that letter, in Scripture.  Titus, afterward, reported to Paul that the matter had been resolved.  It was after this that Paul wrote 2 Corinthians.

2 Corinthians was written by Paul mainly to encourage the Corinthians.  He begins in 1:3 to praise God for His comfort, in the middle of the most severe trials.

Blessed is the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles so that we may be able to comfort those experiencing any trouble with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. For just as the sufferings of Christ overflow toward us, so also our comfort through Christ overflows to you. But if we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation; if we are comforted, it is for your comfort that you experience in your patient endurance of the same sufferings that we also suffer. And our hope for you is steadfast because we know that as you share in our sufferings, so also you will share in our comfort. For we do not want you to be unaware, brothers and sisters, regarding the affliction that happened to us in the province of Asia, that we were burdened excessively, beyond our strength, so that we despaired even of living. Indeed we felt as if the sentence of death had been passed against us, so that we would not trust in ourselves but in God who raises the dead. 10 He delivered us from so great a risk of death, and he will deliver us. We have set our hope on him that he will deliver us yet again, 11 as you also join in helping us by prayer, so that many people may give thanks to God on our behalf for the gracious gift given to us through the help of many.
2 Cor. 1:3-11

There is a school of religious thought that teaches a person will never have disappointment or sorrow or pain or heartbreak, if he or she only has enough faith.  And, conversely, if one experiences such things, it is because his or her faith is weak.  This is a distortion of Jesus' teachings on faith.  Yes, He did say that if we have enough faith we can move mountains.  However, that is only if it is God's will for that mountain to move.  We must constantly be seeking to align our wills with God's perfect will. No matter how much faith you have, if God does not want the mountain to move, it won't.

Why do I mention that?  Well, look at this passage.  Paul, that spiritual "giant" of a man, admitted to his extreme discouragement!  He had just come through a very rough time in Asia, so rough, in fact, that he was nearly killed.  He as much as said that he even wanted to die.  That's pretty discouraged, wouldn't you say?

In counterpoint to the false teaching mentioned above, listen to the promise Jesus gave us in John 16:33 (NKJV) - -

These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”

This promise doesn't mean we should pray for it.  It does tell us, though, that we should not be surprised by it.  It also tells us that our small part of the story is ....well, only one small part of the story.  We are to be encouraged, Jesus said, because He has overcome the world.  The story is not over.  In the end, our God wins.

So, in light of this truth, Paul begins this letter with praise to God, who comforts us in the midst of our trials.  And, sometimes, when it is in accordance with His will, He delivers us out of them, as He did to Paul in Asia.  Paul then makes a very powerful statement about the purpose of our trials (vs. 9-10).  Paul declares that his afflictions in Asia caused him to trust more fully and hope more completely in the God who raises the dead.  These trials strengthened Paul's faith.  It is God's intention that our adversities will strengthen our faith as well.

But, there is another purpose for our pain - - - that we would experience the comfort that can only come from God (vs. 4).  He is the source of all comfort for the believer; there is no one who can take His place in that role.  Those of you who have experienced the worst pain and loss this world can bring, those of you who know Him as Savior, know this truth well.  God's comfort, His consolation, strengthen and carry us during our time of pain.  As Paul did, our response should be to praise God, even in the deepest pain.  How counterintuitive to the world's way is THAT?!

The third point from this passage and the one Paul expounds upon the most is that we are allowed to experience pain, loss, grief, tragedy so that when we have come through it, by the grace of God, we will comfort others when they encounter similar circumstances.  It is so heartbreaking to see believers who react to adversity by "holing up", drawing in, sealing off from the rest of the Body of Christ, and from the rest of the world as well, to nurse anger, bitterness and unforgiveness.

I am reminded of the recent story of the believers in Charleston who were gunned down by the demon-possessed man (oh, yes, don't be fooled) during their Bible study.  Do you remember the response of the survivors and the family members?  It was to express forgiveness to that deranged man.  In that situation, part of Satan's plan was stolen from him.  In fact, it worked against him in a mighty way.  God, the only wise God, received the glory from that situation.  They could have so easily turned it into a huge civil rights event, because the gunman was white and the church members black.  They could have capitalized on the hate, thereby garnering for themselves attention, praise, cult-status.  But, they did not.  They responded with forgiveness.  What an example they are!

We are called, Paul says, to share with our brothers and sister in Christ, and indeed, with the world as well, the comfort that is in Jesus Christ, our God.  If we don't, if we sit by devoid of compassion, reservedly, while those near us suffer, are we "being" the Church?  No, we are not.  Remember this truth: any pain you have experienced was allowed you, in part, so that you can draw upon those experiences to comfort someone else.

Yesterday, I gained a new follower on Twitter: Christopher Yuan.  Most of you won't know who he is.  I do, because of my own life experiences.  Dr. Yuan is a very accomplished man.  He is also a man who struggled with homosexuality, eventually coming out of that destructive lifestyle through the power of Jesus Christ.  He wrote a book about his experiences, Out of a Far Country, and today speaks all over the world to encourage those who struggle with this potentially deadly form of sexual addiction.  (I've put an Amazon link to his book in Sources:).  Dr. Yuan has encouraged me; I was honored by his "follow".

My point in mentioning him is that he is now using the horrors he experienced earlier in life to comfort and encourage those who struggle in similar fashions.  He is an "example to the believer" (1 Timothy 4:12).


Father, You are the ultimate Encourager.  The Holy Spirit, who lives in us, is called in Greek "paraclete" - - one who goes alongside to help.  You are ever with us, and no more so than when we suffer.  May we, in imitation of You, go alongside those around us who suffer pain, loss, sickness and other calamities of this life, realizing that You permit nothing to touch Your children unless it has first passed through Your hand.  You are sovereign, and You are utterly, everlastingly good.  In Jesus' name, amen.



Sources:

Wiersbe, Warren W. The Wiersbe Bible Commentary. 2nd ed. Colorado Springs: David C Cook, 2007. 502-503 Print.

http://www.matthewmcgee.org/paultime.html

http://www.amazon.com/Out-Far-Country-Journey-Mothers-ebook/dp/B004J4WK7E/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1445614719&sr=1-1&keywords=christopher+yuan